About the hair.
I rinse out my hair, carefully, in the shower. I scrub my scalp to loosen dirt, product, and other junk first. Then I cup the curls in my hand so they’re not hanging down my back and getting all stretched out while the water is running through it. Yes, this is possible. And no, I had no idea. Then I grab some really rich and moisturizing conditioner and scrunch it into my hair, avoiding the roots. Right now I’m using something called Ren Cleansing Conditioner. I love it. It really does the trick. While the hair is loaded with the conditioner I use my fingers to comb through the tangles. Then it gets all rinsed out, I flip my head upside down and give it a good shake. Then I squeeze and scrunch all the extra water out and wrap it in an old t-shirt. I don’t rub it, and I don’t use a towel-both cause frizz.
(and here you have exhibit A as to why I always have my hair up these days)